Many guys do not know how to touch their lady’s G spot and some have no idea about the orgasmic potential too.
A friend of mine told me the other day that the g spot does not exist. I found this amusing as the night before I spend over 30 minutes massaging and touching my lovers g spot causing massive full body orgasms.
Do you have trouble locating your lovers G spot?
Actually it is not so hard to find with a bit of patience but once you do, you’ll be on the way to give your lover G spot orgasms. These are usually MUCH more intense than the usual clitoris orgasms.
Here’s some easy tips to show you how to do find it.
Finding the G spot Tip One: Make sure your fingernails are trimmed and your hands washed. I use a nail file to smooth my nails for added comfort..
Finding the G spot Tip two: The g spot can differ when a women is aroused or not. So it is best to make sure she is really turned on and hot from some great foreplay. It is good that her vagina is well lubricated. I often use some lubricant for extended G spot massage.
Finding the G spot Tip Three: The best position to find the G spot is for her to be on her back with her legs open. One can use pillows to support her too. Make her feel loved and cared for. At times some strong emotions can surface doing this type of touch so be loving and supportive.
Finding the G spot Tip Four: It is a nice touch to ask permission to do the following. Have your palm facing upward and very slowly insert your first or second finger into her vagina for about 1 to 2 inches.
Finding the G spot Tip Five: Move your finger up to the top wall of the vagina to feel an area usually ridged like a walnut. This will differ from the usual smooth texture of the vulva.
Finding the G spot Tip Six: Move your finger in a come here motion and try moving your finger in small circles. Experiment with the pressure and speed of movement. Slow is usually best at first.
Finding the G spot Tip Seven: Communicate with your partner about her experience. Vary the pressure to see if this increases her pleasure. Most men do not use enough pressure on this spot so keep this in mind.
One can also use dirty talking to raise the level of intensity. I find that most men do not know how to use the real power of dirty talking. Most women like a strong male presence and dirty talking is a great way to achieve this and it is easy to learn and fun too.
For more on this see Dirty Talking Tips For Men.
Once your lady’s g spot is activated, she’ll be begging for more!
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